Happy Marriage Guidelines

My wife and I have had a happy marriage for nearly thirty years. We both had been married previously without much success, so we studied the writings of L. Ron Hubbard on the subject before getting married a second time.

(Get one of his books to see the chapter on how to have a Happy Marriage.)

This is what we found and how we applied it.

• We both had common goals and purposes in life and agreed to work together to attain them.

• After getting engaged, we spent three months before the wedding sorting things out to ensure the relationship had a chance to last.

• We spent some time working out our individual responsibilities as a future husband and wife, wrote them up and signed this agreement as a guideline for our life together..

• Whenever we had a major disagreement, we would review the signed agreement and either continue to follow it or agree to change it to fit the current situation. (After the first few years this was no longer necessary.)

• We accept each other as we are, and do not attempt to change the other person. Both of us have changed as we progressed in life, but the changes were determined by ourselves.

• We stay faithful to each other and confess any wrong doing to maintain trust between us.

• We operate as a team. If one of us makes a mistake, the other assumes equal responsibility and assists in the correction of the matter.

It hasn't always been easy, but workable and resulted in a very happy marriage.

Fred Hare

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