I Found The Man Of My Dreams

by Remy
(Glendale)

For years, I would dissolve what seemed perfectly good relationships with very good guys without ever really being able to explain the reason.

One day I did an exercise recommended by L. Ron Hubbard called an Admin Scale where you look at goals, purposes, ideal scenes, etc. You really evaluate and map out various areas of your life this way.

The very next week I met with a friend I had not seen for years, and he told me "I know who you will marry."

At that time marriage was the last thing in my mind and I laughed it up, but a few weeks later I met his friend and it was magical.

I had written down exactly what I was looking for in a man and here he was. It was as if he had read the paper where I had described exactly what I wanted.

He too had done one of those Admin Scales and, unbeknownst to me, he saw in me what he was looking for.

He proposed that night. We'd only known each other for 2 hours, but I said, "Yes", with no qualms—this had never happened before—and we were married 8 days later.

We just celebrated our 5th anniversary, are happy and as in love as the first day we met, and have a beautiful healthy child.